I left you with an insight in the previous section:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
your quality of life is a consequence of your choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what does this mean in practice?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What does it mean to \u201elive vibrantly\u201d - not just as a nice-sounding phrase, but in a real, liveable way?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
1. Release of control<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is one of the most difficult.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And honestly?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Especially as a mother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We want to solve it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
We want to control it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Keep it all under control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But the reality is that:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc49 you can't control everything.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And when you finally let go of that...<\/p>\n\n\n\n
something is released.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Imagine riding a horse and suddenly letting go of the reins.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Is it scary? Yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But it's also incredibly free.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
2. Allowing for lightness<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is a deeply held belief:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\u201eLife is hard.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But what if it doesn't have to be?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What if:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
you don't always have to fight<\/p>\n\n\n\n
you don't always have to prove it<\/p>\n\n\n\n
you don't always have to survive<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc49 But can it work for pleasure?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
This is not naivety.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is a choice.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
3. Bringing back playfulness<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It's something we almost completely forget as adults.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But it is there within us.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And sometimes that is the key in the middle of chaos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
For example, we have:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
dancing while brushing your teeth<\/p>\n\n\n\n
competition to see who can dress up faster<\/p>\n\n\n\n
plush \u201etravels\u201d to nursery<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Little things?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Yes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But they change the whole mood.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The truth that few say<\/p>\n\n\n\n
My life has not got any easier.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
With 4 children it will not be \u201eeasy\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is chaos.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is guilt.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
There is fatigue.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
But there's something we didn't have before:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc49 life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Buzz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Presence.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A pleasure.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The work that gave you freedom<\/p>\n\n\n\n
One of the biggest changes was that I also dared to decide about my work.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not just \u201eworking\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
building community<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I learn and teach<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I am evolving<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I can be myself<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And most importantly:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\ud83d\udc49 not building someone else's life.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It's my own.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
The question now is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Not whether it is possible to live like this.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
It is:<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What decision will you make today?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What are you changing?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What are you saying no to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
What are you finally saying yes to?<\/p>\n\n\n\n
You don't need everything at once.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Just one thing.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
A decision.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
Close<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was no more special.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I was no braver.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I didn't have any more opportunities.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
I just decided.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
And that changed everything.<\/p>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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